> Should I add monks?
this one really depends on what is going on in the game, but i don’t think you should start all-in elephants with monks since you need to hit that critical mass of elephants to win the game with your first push
> Should I sell my stone
these kinds of strategies are strongest when they have a sharp timing, so i think selling stone is a good idea. it’s not like you’re going to be adding tcs anyways and you probably won’t have enough eco to get a forward castle and have elephants in sufficient numbers.
> when should I not push and just play it safe instead
once you’re all-in, you’re all-in… unless you do a bunch of damage and but aren’t quite able to close out the game, it almost never makes sense to transition back into standard play. afaik malay have to set up for the all-in in feudal so if your plan is to all-in, you don’t really have the option of backing out