Usually when someone here says they unpaused after 5 mins… it wasn’t 5 minutes.
If you unpaused without chatting and asking what’s up and giving proper time, the toxic behavior is kind of on you… you unpaused it first, he came back to the game ongoing and it obviously looked like you cheated by doing that. You may not have intended that, but what *feels like* 5 minutes while waiting and what actually is 5 minutes are very different.
Especially if you unpaused without first questioning things and so on. Unless the dude was dead, his triggered behaviour and his attics makes sense.